Benefits of Self-Nurturing

Being in an environment of mistrust and doubt really takes it out of you. Stress, worry, fear of humiliation, fear of finding your fears are true, all have a detrimental effect on your health and wellbeing. In the same way that it is important that you are able to find out the truth once and for all, it's also important that you look after your health.

If you don't look after yourself, how are you in your best condition to face what is happening in your life? How do you know that you are in your peak condition, able to think clearly and concisely, and able to make the right decisions about your relationship and the future of your marriage?

I get emails from a number of tired, stressed, and unwell clients. Sick or tired people make bad judgments and bad decisions. It's easy to let things overwhelm you and react in a way that you may later regret. The trick with finding out the truth is in playing it smart. It pays to be on top of your game if you are going to outwit your partner.

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Then it's time to find some ways to channel and eliminate stress from your life, and put things in perspective. Escape your issues for a while.

If you are in the midst of a crisis, take some time out and spend it nurturing yourself. Get a massage, a facial, a manicure, a haircut, or anything that helps you to relax or feel sexy. Remind yourself that underneath all that stress you are a person. It's times like these when you realize that the only person looking out for you, is you. Treat yourself. When is the last time you took a day off, went shopping for clothes, had your hair cut, caught up with a friend for lunch or coffee? When was the last time you spread a blanket out on the grass and read a book? When was the last time you walked in the park, admired the view, listened to the sounds of life and nature around you, and felt the sun on your skin?

Make a list of things you can do on a day off:

• go walking in a park or on the beach
• buy an ice-cream
• meet with old friends for coffee or a meal
• get a massage
• get your hair cut
• get your nails done
• get a facial
• buy some new clothes
• listen to a favorite CD
• go for a drive somewhere nice
• visit relatives
• buy yourself some flowers
• spend some time in a garden
• meditate
• burn some scented oil or light some incense
• go to a yoga class
• go for a run
• ride a bike
• go for a swim
• lay on your back and watch the clouds
• have a sleep in the sunshine
• More importantly, when is the last time you noticed life going on around you?

One important realization I want to impress upon you is that no matter how desperate your situation may seem, it's vital that you don't immerse yourself in it completely. Live your life in balance. Notice life going on around you. Spend some time in it. Spend some time doing things you love, and spending time with friends and family members you love.

Then when you are refreshed and ready, you are able to refocus on your marriage situation.